Which church you're in? Most likely the second one!

I don't think there exist a Bible church that will teach you're welcome and live immorally. If there is such a church, it isn't a BIBLE church. It may have a Bible on its name, but it isn't a Bible-believing and Bible-teaching church. Most Bible churches will fall between legalistic churches and grace churches. Legalistic churches make it a point to remind people- you're not welcome until you clean up your life. They make it a point to remind everyone that only righteous people belongs to the church, and by righteous they don't mean imputed righteous. They will only accept people who pray, "God, I thank You that I am not like other people: swindlers, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week; I pay tithes of all that I get." Luke 18:11-12 That is why they are quick to judge people who are "different," meaning, "holy" whatever that means. If you don't go to church, you're the other side. If y...